People Hear Your Body Language Before You Say a Word

People Hear Your Body Language Before You Say a Word

You haven’t even opened your mouth to speak…. but the room has already decided what it thinks of you. Shoulders a bit hunched over, eyes down, a closed face. The message lands before you open your mouth: this person does not want to be here. Every time I see this...
The Simple Truth: Structure Makes Speaking So Much Easier

The Simple Truth: Structure Makes Speaking So Much Easier

Most people think confident speakers are born with some magical gift. They’re not. What they do have is something that can be LEARNED: structure. Structure is the secret that lies behind great presentations, day-to-day conversations, and feeling genuinely confident...
Don’t take that tone with me! Why the way you speak to me matters.

Don’t take that tone with me! Why the way you speak to me matters.

I bet, when you’re writing your presentation, you think about what you want to say. Perhaps you carefully craft your message, you plan your key points, and I’d like to think you even rehearse it out loud to ensure everything flows smoothly. But here’s a question: do...
Fake it ’til you make it? Or are you hiding something?

Fake it ’til you make it? Or are you hiding something?

“Fake it ’til you make it” is a phrase we’ve all heard at some point. It promises that pretending to have confidence or expertise can help us eventually embody those qualities. But in a world where authenticity is prized, is this approach outdated, or even...
Stop Reading Your Presentations!

Stop Reading Your Presentations!

I get it: you don’t want to forget your words, so you script your presentation…and then you read from that script. Or maybe you think you’re not doing that because your presentation is a series of Powerpoint slides…which you then read to your audience. .Reading from a...